Amazing. She has always been there for me, since I can remember even knowing her she's had my back. I've always had hers too. Like I said in my very first post, she had been on the fence of this whole Sugar Baby thing. I can't blame her, suddenly your best friend who's like a sister calls you up and says "Hey! I wanna be a Sugar Baby!" what's the first thing that come to mind? for all you SB's out there, you would think "Great! Now she'll know what I gow through, we can grow stronger and I can have someone to really talk with." Well, to someone who isn't an SB, (like me....I'm not one yet) my first thought would be, "Why? Why do you need to? Or even want to?" and I'm sure that's what she thought to. I just remember her saying over and over, "K, if you do this, please be safe about it" It was like she was saying I was stupid. Not that she meant it like that, and I know that. She only meant it because she was just trying to look out for me.
Then I would try to talk to her about it, being an SB and all. She would listen and it felt great to have someone to actually speak to. God knows I don't know any real SB's I've met a few online but no "real life" girls who do this. I told her about a guy offering to pay for me to come up to NY to meet him. She seemed in awe of that, "Oh my god....." she had said "Tell him your best friend wants to come along......" She of course had been joking. It was still nice to have positive feedback. Now I'm getting mail from all over the place! I'm not sure if I should be worried or thrilled to have all of these potential SD's. I'm a little scared all of these people are giving me their phone numbers and personal information. It's quite daunting but.......I like it. Is that weird?
Another guy recently messaged me saying "looking for a bright, articulate and cute young woman to be my sugar baby. Read your profile and i have do doubt we would hit it off. Would bet we share many of the same interests. Love the beach and the water. Use to own horses and was an avid rider. Love the movies, cooking (own a spice and extract company), reading and exploring new cities, museums etc.I had a sugar baby for three years and we had a great time together. Took her to Europe, Mexico and all over the US. On our last trip to Europe we came home on the Queen Mary. If we hit it off would be looking to have you travel with me." Now....that sounds amazing. Museums was actually what caught my eye. Not the traveling, (though that would def. be an added perk!) I would love a guy who's truly interested in History as I am. I responded, telling him I'd love to talk, (meaning the computer.....I don't think I'm ready for a guy I met online to have my cell number) and he gave me his cell number asking me to tell him all about me and maybe text a picture so he could see what I looked like. Again....that's something I just can't do right now. I almost feel like I'm leading these guys on. I'll tell you why I can't in the next post. This is me ranting about my awesome best friend now x3
When I read her that message she said "Wow.....that sounds really cool....someone to travel with. He took his last Sugar Baby to Europe? Jeez! If you go with anybody it should be him!" again, she was joking but it was still nice to hear someone tell me he sounded nice. And that maybe I should try to get to know him. Well today we went to the mall, exchanging Christmas gifts and using up gift cards (and I don't care what anyone says, gift cards rock! People always say it's the lazy way out. Nuhuh! I can get what I actually want, not what you think I want.) while we went there (It's about a little more then an hours drive to our mall.) I told her all about what I wanted and if I could try to achieve it. I was expecting her to just be a good listener, mumble a few "yeahs" and "I understand" just let me get a few things off of my chest. Instead she got into the conversation. Was asking questions, and listening to the things I had learned about SB and SD relationships. Then she even told me she'd take me to meet them, that way I had somebody there. We wouldn't have to tell anyone that I knew her. She could just be there, wherever we decided to go. "I'll take you and just be a spy....I'll sit in the back of wherever and get a newspaper and every time you guys look at me I'll put the paper in front of my face. Oh! and I can buy wigs! I'll change my outfits and stuff.....this is going to be AWESOME!" At first it was just a joke, and we laughed for about ten minutes. Joking about if the date went wrong she'd just come out of nowhere and we'd take off. Then she told me she'd really do it. Holy shit! What? Really? "Yeah.....long as I'm paid for gas......shit don't come cheap"
So that, is why I have the best friend in the world. She is ALWAYS there for me. I've noticed that a lot of younger Sugar Babies don't have a lot of people to talk to about what they do. The stress they go through. Or if their date went horrible they have nobody to vent to. If it went wonderful there isn't anyone to sit there and do a happy dance with them. I'm just glad I have her is all.....and she may be the help and support I need to become a full fledged Sugar Baby. -fingers crossed!-
-K
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